The Benefits of an Active Sex Life with Your Partner

Find your passion!

For Wellness:

Did you know?

  •  Studies show sex decreases blood pressure (systolic blood pressure) and decreases heart attack risk
  • (Men) Sex decreases prostate cancer risk (from increased ejaculation)
  • (Women) Sex improves bladder control, increases lubrication and blood flow to the vaginal area
  • Orgasm is a natural way to decreases pain (various types of pain including low back pain and arthritic pain), headaches and anxiety
  • A healthy sex life is linked to improved overall level of self-esteem, decreased stress level and increased overall happiness.

For Fitness:

  • Good Sex increases muscle strength in the pelvic floor.
  • Having sex increases your heart rate–the more creative you get and the longer you sustain having sex, it can become quite a workout!

For Connectedness: 

Warning Increased intimacy with your partner might lead to ignoring his/her annoying habits (such as snoring and farting in bed, leaving the toilet seat up and leaving dishes in the sink!)

Let’s face it, there are so many reasons/obstacles why we don’t have sex with or loved one such as: stress, pain, time, disability, decreased lubrication, habit, lack of fitness level, fear of poor bladder control, fear of performance, lack of self esteem, etc.

The irony is–having sex actually helps so many of these obstacles. Need help with lubrication? Setting mood? Ideas for mixing things up? Not a problem! Visit our store, we have so many quality products that make having sex something you can’t wait to carve out the time for!

The Passionate Sex Company, LLC. will never discriminate anyone based on sexual orientation, gender, racial, ethnic or religious preferences.

The push and the pull

Finding the time, making it work, feeling the passion.

You know when you look in her eyes that she could be your everything. You know what she does for you when you come together in that intimate way that is ever so personal to you and to her. You know that after all these years, she still can do it. But the struggle is there. The resentment, the headache, the negativity, the criticism, the yelling, the crying, the sleepless nights…its all there. Lost inside the push and pull, the ying and the yang, the struggle…lies a deep connection.

I look at you and I want to get lost. I want to be everything to you. I look at you and I wonder how we’ve come here, to this place of despair. How can it be so hard, wow, I feel like Sheryl Crow.

But what if.. what if it was you and I, on an island, without a care in the world, how you would love me then and how I would love you. You would look at me and want me always and I would do the same. We would eat, we would sleep and we would love. This I believe.

Get lost with me on that island. I want you still. Please me, love me and do what you do best. Get lost  with me with shadows behind us and sun on our path. Years gone by and we have it still.


I never thought sex toys had a place in my marriage

“When my wife told me she used a vibrator sometimes, I felt upset. It seemed strange to me that she would want/need a toy when she has me! I didn’t realize that she was being her sexual self and I definitely didn’t realize what sex toys could do for us in our sex life. When we started using a couples vibrator to please us both in a whole new way, it opened up a world of passion that we had never known together before.”

Anonymous, married 16 years

“I just want to be John’s (my husband’s) lover!”

“I’m done with the mommy role…I just want to be John’s lover.  I just can’t wait these days for the kids to leave for school or to fall asleep!  John is joining to take time off since the kids are in school all day and we can spend the whole day having sex! This is the new me, this is the new us. You will flip when you see me…I have a bikini body…John thinks he’s having an affair…with me”

married 15 years

Married 45 years and still got it!

“I don’t likek to write but I’ll say something to you since I like what you’re doing. I’ve been married almost 45 years and we’ve still got passion in our marriage! You know what makes it work? We spend time apart.  I think it’s coming coming back together after time away that keeps it exciting!”

66 year old Cindy

Boston, MA

“There is only the passionate spark.”

“At our age, surely there are better things to sustain us, to sustain a marriage, than the brief flame of passion?” …”You are mistaken, Ernest,” she said at last. “There is only the passionate spark. Without it, two people living together may be lonelier than if they lived quite alone.”
— Helen Simonson

Sexy is Soul